/-// Y / says:
Right now the only thoughts I have are of kissing Kirsty silly.
/-// Y / says:
Cos she's fiiine.
AirScape says:
well
AirScape says:
does she fanc y you at all
AirScape says:
?
/-// Y / says:
To be honest, I dunno.
/-// Y / says:
There's signs suggesting she does
/-// Y / says:
There's also signs suggesting it's wishful thinking
AirScape says:
tell me the signs ill give you an opinion
AirScape says:
there are some girls that give the signs but are also a complete waste of time and effort
/-// Y / says:
yeah i know...but Kirsty seems sweet
/-// Y / says:
See, I'm very analytical about things concerning me. I go over and over them in my head and come out with a conclusion and this one is a tough one.
AirScape says:
well what signs is she giving off?
/-// Y / says:
One on hand, in my mind, Kirsty likes me. This is 'proven' by the fact that a) she called me up out of the blue one night because she 'didn't have anyone else to call'
/-// Y / says:
b) she playfully 'hits' me and then runs off, but turns and has an expression that says 'come chase me'. It reminds me of primary school when the girls used to use to hit the boys kind of thing. you know what i mean?
/-// Y / says:
c) she's taken a liking to running her hand through my hair a lot
/-// Y / says:
d) Jenny commented that i had a love bite on my neck (it wasn't though) and i said "I wish" and Kirsty jokingly rushed over to me and was going to give me one, but didn't because she was 'joking'
/-// Y / says:
Evidence against all that is that I've not had any real friends for a very long time and all this affection is overwhelming. It could just be that i'm misinterpreting all of these signs because i dont know the differece btween friendship and intimacy
/-// Y / says:
Your witness...
AirScape says:
well
AirScape says:
romance starts with friendship
AirScape says:
my opinion is that theres more than friendship being given out
AirScape says:
and that its not in your head
AirScape says:
the running up and punching then running off is usually a way of getting your attention
AirScape says:
playing with your hair is to make you feel closer and more comfortable with her
/-// Y / says:
I consider that one one of the classic psychological sign of someone liking you, the running up and running off part
AirScape says:
volunteering a love bite is probably just joking around, i wouldnt bother reading into that
AirScape says:
calls you up out of the blue, shows she wants to see you out of college aswell
AirScape says:
personally i thin theres something there
/-// Y / says:
That REALLY got me. The fact that she called me.
/-// Y / says:
I mean no one EVER calls me
AirScape says:
but with all girls if you dont show some signs back then they loose interest
/-// Y / says:
And within the space of around 3/4 weeks of knowing her, she calls me
AirScape says:
okay
AirScape says:
so you have her number?
/-// Y / says:
No. I entered mine on her mobile
/-// Y / says:
she wanted me to
/-// Y / says:
but she had catherine's and jenny's on there too
/-// Y / says:
so not rading anything into that
AirScape says:
she wanted you to have her number?
/-// Y / says:
No, she wanted mine
AirScape says:
okay
AirScape says:
so get her number
AirScape says:
give her a call
AirScape says:
arrange to go out
AirScape says:
get to know her out of college
AirScape says:
the more you get to know her
AirScape says:
the more likely she is to ask you to go places
/-// Y / says:
I think to myself though, what do I actually do even if I were to start seeing her? I mean I wouldn't know where to go with her or what to do. I'm new at all that
AirScape says:
got a cinema near?
/-// Y / says:
generic
AirScape says:
uh?
AirScape says:
the only mistake i make
AirScape says:
is i stay friends with them for to long so they feel that they are too gooder friends and dont want to loose your friendship
AirScape says:
that ones gets me nearly everytime
/-// Y / says:
Me too
/-// Y / says:
And the fact that I don't know how to advance onto the next step, should I want to pursue a relationship with them.
/-// Y / says:
It's not even for fear of rejection. I just don't know how to ask.
AirScape says:
well
AirScape says:
first things first
AirScape says:
do not do what i did last night and walk p to her and say can i have a pull please
AirScape says:
that was purely only for scientific research
AirScape says:
no one know how to ask someone else out
/-// Y / says:
heh, wouldn't it be great if I asked her that and she said yeah hehe
AirScape says:
it would be wonderful but you would only get one pull out of it and that would screw up
AirScape says:
the way i usually do it
AirScape says:
is just improvise on the situation
AirScape says:
analyse whats going on
AirScape says:
if they are distracted dont move close to them and just kiss them on the lips and take it from there
AirScape says:
if you are alone
AirScape says:
say in a cinema
AirScape says:
give her a cuddle
AirScape says:
keep on looking at her
AirScape says:
see if she is distracted from the film
AirScape says:
if she looks at you and smiles
/-// Y / says:
I wonder if she notices how much I look at her daily
AirScape says:
give her a kiss on the cheek and look back at the film
AirScape says:
if she looks at you when you do it yes she does notice mate
AirScape says:
when it comes down to it girls seem not to like things to be rushed
/-// Y / says:
...she does most of the time...
/-// Y / says:
I dont like them rushed either lol
AirScape says:
no one does
AirScape says:
does she glance at you smile and look away
AirScape says:
?
/-// Y / says:
she does actually sometimes lol
AirScape says:
well
AirScape says:
if she looks at you
AirScape says:
make it appear joking
AirScape says:
but slow her a kiss, smile and look away
AirScape says:
see how she resonds
AirScape says:
blow her not slow her a kiss*
/-// Y / says:
the biggest step i've made towards her would be when i hugged on her friday and it was an extended hug that lasted for a few seconds instead of a second or two
/-// Y / says:
I didn't eve mean to do it either, it just came from within to not let her go for those seconds
AirScape says:
did she struggle to go?
/-// Y / says:
No, but I don't recall her arms hugging me back after the first second. But then, I wasn't really recording it all in my head at that point
AirScape says:
well mate
AirScape says:
next time you look at her
AirScape says:
acknowledge her if she looks at you
AirScape says:
by blowing her a kiss
AirScape says:
see if she reacts well or badly
/-// Y / says:
heh
AirScape says:
because you can read alotinto that or not very much
AirScape says:
thats what i would try personally
I think I shall try his blowing a kiss idea.
